How to Prepare for Fostering a Baby
Making the decision to become a foster carer and welcome a baby into your home is wonderful, but also requires plenty of preparation. Here is a guide on getting ready to foster an infant.
Research the Process
The first step is to thoroughly research the foster process so you understand what’s involved. Contact your local foster care agency to learn about requirements, training, background checks, home visits, etc. Understand the different types of foster care, from emergency to short-term to long-term. Learn about the costs covered and reimbursements provided. Researching prepares you for each step. Foster agencies like Foster Care Associates have staff who can walk you through each requirement.
Create Space
Before a baby arrives, you'll need to prepare your home. Designate a nursery or space for the baby to sleep. Get all the essentials like a cot, changing table, rocking chair, etc. Baby-proof your home by covering sharp corners, securing cabinets, installing safety gates, etc. Also, clear out space for a baby's things. Foster agencies provide some supplies, but you'll need room for baby's clothes, toys, gear, etc. An organised, safe home makes bringing home a baby smooth. Consider noise levels too - placing baby's room away from loud areas helps them sleep.
Gather Supplies
Stock up on baby essentials like nappies, wipes, blankets, burp cloths, dummies, baby wash, bibs, onesies, etc. Newborns grow quickly so have some 0-3 months and 3-6 months sizes on hand. Also, have basic medical supplies like a thermometer, nasal aspirator, and baby first aid kit. Meals will be hectic those first weeks, so stock your freezer with easily prepared foods. Getting supplies ready ahead of time lets you focus on your new baby. Don't go overboard on clothes and toys - you can always get more later once you meet baby's needs and personality.
Learn Infant Care Skills
Caring for a newborn requires some new skills. Take infant CPR and first aid classes so you’re prepared for emergencies. Read up on bathing, nappy changing, feeding, burping, and soothing techniques. Consider taking parenting classes that cover all aspects of infant care. Hands-on experience with babies is also useful if you can volunteer to care for a friend or family member’s baby. Developing your skills builds confidence. The more prepared you are, the more comfortable you'll feel caring for a fragile baby.
Baby Proof Your Home
Before your foster baby arrives, do a sweep of your home and baby-proof. Cover plug sockets, secure furniture to walls, and install cabinet and toilet locks. Move choking hazards and hazardous chemicals out of reach. Your foster agency will also inspect your home and suggest any changes needed to keep baby safe. A baby-friendly home minimises risks. Also, get on your hands and knees to view your home from a baby's perspective and remove anything potentially dangerous.
Notify Your Support System
Let close family and friends know you'll be fostering an infant soon so they can provide support. Line up help with errands, meals, and giving you breaks. Babies require lots of care and attention, so having your support system lined up is essential. Also, inform your workplace about your new foster baby and any needed accommodations. The more support you have in place, the smoother the transition will be.
Preparing your home, gathering supplies, and developing your skills makes the transition smooth when a baby is placed with you. While fostering is rewarding, it’s also challenging, so remember self-care. With some preparation, you’ll be ready to provide your foster baby with a loving, nurturing environment.